The Most Important Decision a Christian Man Will Ever Make

If you knew the most important decision of your life was soon approaching, what would you do?

If I said, “(Insert your name here), in two years, you are going to execute the most important decision of your life. It will effect the rest of your life like no other decision you have ever made. Every detail of your life will be directly influenced by this one decision. Are you ready to make that decision?”

You would probably learn everything you could with meticulous research, committed rehearsal, and a determination to make the decision the best possible choice ever. If you really internalized and believed that this was the most important choice you would ever make… it would probably take a long time before you were ready to “pull the trigger” on that decision.

If you haven’t already figured it out, the most important decision a Christian will ever make in his life is choosing his wife.

YOUR WIFE

With divorce rates as high as they are, it would lead one to believe that men are choosing their wives like they choose a fast food meal at lunch – with no regard for the future.

Most men have no knowledge of relationship skills, leaderships skills, social skills, or an awareness of what women want. Why not? Those are exactly what “tools” you need to find a high quality Christian woman and keep her in a healthy and stable relationship.

Your wife is the most important decision you will ever make, and what have you done to prepare?

Don’t tell me you believe in the myth that “one day it will just happen” or “God will put a woman in my life when He thinks I’m ready.”

God has already put thousands of women in your life (unless you live in a rural town) and what have you done so far?

I used to be in denial and believe that “fate” would take care of finding me a beautiful, high self-esteem Christian queen. Boy was I wrong.

Before I learned the social skills, confidence, and charisma of a romantic hero, and after a terrible break up with my girlfriend, I realized I was not the man God intended me to be. I realized that “finding the one” takes effort just as anything else in life.

After that break up, I realized that I had not been preparing myself for the most important decision of my life. Then I made the second most important decision of my life. I chose to do something about it. I chose to get my dating and social life handled. After years of hard work, I became the man of my woman’s dreams. I am her romantic hero.

I spent years studying social dynamics, the psychology of men and women, leadership, and other relevant knowledge that gave me the tools to be a romantic hero for the woman of my dreams. It was hard work and admittedly painful at times. But what success have you ever achieved without putting in hard work?

I studied instructional design (how people learn and how to effectively teach them) in recent years so that I could most effectively teach others what I had learned. I believe romantic and social skills are essential to every Christian man. I believe that every Christian man should be prepared for the most important decision of his life.

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and receives favor from the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22

“Find” is an active verb. You must go seek your wife. And you must prepare to be your absolute best self when you find her.

In addition to helping you become the romantic hero, this website is here to help you become more social so you can get your dating life handled. I want to help you become the best possible version of yourself – the version that God wants you to be. If you have any questions, email me: info@theromantichero.com

Cheers,

Mark