So you’ve read 7 Dating Tips and understand that body language is the #1 way a woman communicates. But do you understand what her body language is telling you? I’m going to reveal a few tips for you to pick up on next time you’re interacting with a potential romantic interest.
1. HIPS – This is THE BIGGEST factor when interpreting a woman’s body language. If her hips are facing you, it is a good thing. Women generally are not aware of it when they do it, but if you are so interesting, compelling, or attractive that her hips are facing you – good job.
There are a number of things that go into whether or not she is feeling attraction for you, but this is the biggest indicator – short of her planting a kiss 
If her hips are not facing you in an interaction, then you can interpret that as her saying, “I’m not giving you my full attention because you are not interesting, compelling, or attractive enough for me to care.”
2. EYE CONTACT – If her eyes are intently focused on yours, then she is showing interest. If her eyes are wandering or have a blank look, then you can be doing better. If her pupils are dilated, good job, she is feeling a positive emotion with you.
3. PREENING – If she does anything to make her appearance more flattering, then she is feeling something positive towards you. For example, it could be as subtle as a scratch on her wrist or as obvious as a flick of the hair. If she flattens her shirt (to make her tummy appear flatter) or adjusts any clothing, then she is making an attempt to improve her appearance – this means she is trying to look better for you. Again, this is usually something women are not aware of when they do it.
4. TOUCHING – This one seems obvious, but I didn’t know it until someone told me. She might just innocently glance her hand with yours, or do something obvious like hug you. Other indicators are: an elongated touch (something that isn’t necessary such as a prolonged hug, handshake, etc.), touching your arm or shoulder when she says something positive, or even punching you if you tease her (that’s called flirting).
5. FEET – This one is similar to HIPS. Let’s say you are in a group of 5 or so people and someone besides you or her is talking. It would be socially awkward for her to be facing you (with her hips) and listening to someone else who is standing in a different direction than you. So subconsciously, she will point her feet at you if she is attracted. This is especially noticeable when she is seated. You know how women do that crossed leg thing, where one leg is crossed over the other when they sit? Well if the woman is pointing the crossed foot towards you, then that is a positive sign.
While none of these body language indicators are certain signs that a woman is attracted to you, they ARE INDICATORS THAT SHE IS COMFORTABLE – she is open and enjoying your presence. A woman will not point her hips towards you, give you strong eye contact, preen herself, etc. if she is uncomfortable with your presence.
*Here’s a tip for picking up on when she is feeling uncomfortable: when her arms are crossed or in her pockets it means she is closed-off, upset, or uncomfortable with the interaction. (It could just mean she is cold and trying to keep warm so use your critical thinking skills to figure that out.)
Remember that these ‘tips’ are only guidelines and not commandments. They are not always true and definite, but generally you will notice a truth behind what I said.
Really pay attention to these things. The romantic hero is an expert at interpreting a woman’s body language. When you understand these subtle ways women communicate, you can do the same things and have a “between the lines” conversation that few men are able to do with women. It will seriously set you apart from the average guys.
Questions or comments? Email me: mail@theromantichero.com
Cheers,
Mark
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