Sure confidence is good. In fact, confidence is GREAT when it comes to doing well with women (or in just enjoying life in general). If you asked a woman, “What are the top 5 personal qualities you want in a man?” …you will be sure to hear “Confidence” as one of the top 5.
Confidence is an expression of self-validation, independence, manhood, and it’s just plain sexy to women.
But even the most confident man in the world needs more than confidence. It’s like making a pizza. The dough (or confidence in this case) is the backbone of the meal, but the other ingredients are essential before you can have a tasty pizza.
So what are the other “ingredients” that make up a Romantic Hero in addition to Confidence?
Lifestyle.
Social/Romantic Skills.
Beliefs about what is truly possible.
Briefly:
Lifestyle – It’s important to have a lifestyle that is appealing to women. It doesn’t mean you have to be “the most interesting man in the world” (and even that wouldn’t be the “golden ticket” to success with women). It doesn’t mean you have to be rich, good-looking, and/or famous. It doesn’t mean you have to be “connected” or live a life of adventure or be in a band. It simply means you have to have a life that the woman can see herself fitting into well.
Social/Romantic Awareness – It is CRUCIAL to know the psychology of women, but it doesn’t mean you have to be Freud. You’ve got to be socially aware, conversationally acute, and romantically relevant, but it doesn’t mean you have to be Don Juan DeMarco. It simply means developing yourself into a socially and romantically aware person. Think about it. You weren’t born knowing it’s polite and socially expected to say “please” and “thank you”, but you LEARNED those social skills. And you can learn other social (and romantic) skills.
Beliefs – What is truly possible? What REALLY gets a woman attracted and in love with a man? Can you really go from dating zero to romantic hero? Or is that just a cute rhyme some guy made up? If you are reading this post, it’s likely you know (or are hoping) that you can become an attractive man that beautiful, intelligent, and self-confident women enjoy. And you can.
It takes Confidence to tie all of those qualities together. If you lack in one of those 4 essential areas (we all do) then start developing those qualities.
Have questions on how to get those qualities? Email me: MAIL [at] THEROMANTICHERO [dot] COM
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